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Some mega churches affect students adversely

I READ with deep interest the article, 'Drawing the line between Caesar and God' (ST, Aug 2).

The objection of one of the large independent churches in Singapore to complying with provisions in the draft code of governance for charities would logically provoke concern about its financial transparency. This is especially so as these are 'rich' churches, judging by their well-equipped premises and set-up. These circumstances bring to light another concern. Some of these 'mega churches' have relentless recruitment activities in many schools and junior colleges.

My friends and I have loved ones whose lives and attitude have changed after they joined these churches. They lose interest in schoolwork to the point of academic failure. Family time is curtailed drastically, and they stop attending family functions. Parental objections are ignored, family squabbles ensue and family harmony is disrupted. It's heartbreaking. It is like we have lost our children.

I write this not to impugn any religion, but to warn against the abuse of religion. Having had such traumatic experiences, I cannot remain silent. I hope this letter will serve as a warning to parents regarding such youth activities that may destroy their personal lives and family harmony.

Dr Lee Bee Wah

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save us the religious discourse and antiquated anecdotes please. can the entirety of society as a whole come to a consensus with what you believe so staunchly? people should keep their beliefs to themselves.

true, religion may give psychological comfort to those who accept its doctrines, but ultimately it is failure to draw the line between the public and the personal that has changed religion in this way.

i do not understand how a religion can be considered something beneficial if it has the sheer power to drive a wedge between the closest possible bond between people- a parent and a child. in the face of this, even the considerable influence of a church's monetary power and influence pales in comparison.

the sheer power of being able to influence the cognitive processes of a human being is one to be feared and to be treated with caution. this ideology is more powerful than the economy of a thousand mega churches banded together. this alone is something that is cause for alarm, and a trend that we see in society today.